About

Hi, I’m Ian, totally ian. What I value most in life is connection. Relatedness. Connecting with ourselves, our true nature. Connecting with others, courageously, compassionately. Connecting with something bigger, a team, a community, a purpose. These are the spaces where we grow. Where we find meaning. Where we become wholehearted. Where we learn our unique dance.

Belonging to Self
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A Quest for Belonging – Start with Self

Posted on: 17th January 2018

Today I appreciate the mirror of others and self. Last night was the first PSA Cape meeting for the year. I realised before I went

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Liberty – Gaining Freedom is an Inside Job

Posted on: 30th October 2017

Liberty has been a major desire in my life for as long as I can remember. Freedom from the expectations of others. From the inner

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Liberty - not embarrassed to be the goofy funny guy
Journey
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Restoring Zombies – Life is about Journeys not Destinations

Posted on: 12th September 2017

I appreciate the journey. I have too often rushed to destinations. Especially on holiday. Get there as fast as possible. Stressed. Irritable. Even more in

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Wired for Struggle – the Value of Making Mistakes

Posted on: 18th August 2017

Mistakes. Struggles. Errors. Wrong answers. Failures. Poor scores. Misunderstandings. Shortcomings. Inadequacies. Incorrect paths. Weaknesses. These all get a very bad rap in a perfectionistic society.

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Mistakes
Blame, Courage, Leadership, Liberty, Life, Listening, Love

The Blame Game – stalled growth and reclaiming our lives

Posted on: 9th May 2017

Others are so blameworthy. Politicians. Bosses. Spouses. Parents. Traffic. We even blame the weather. I recently asked someone what had happened that they didn’t let

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The Gift Of ‘Negative’ Emotions

Posted on: 5th April 2017

This is a guest blog from my friend and thinking partner Giles Lascelle. He is a transformational coach, trainer and writer, based in the UK. You

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I’m a failure: my path to resilience

Posted on: 24th March 2017

I wrote this as a guest blog for my dear friend and thinking partner Giles Lascelle of Transformation Journey. It is a story of my path to

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